Half of Life is lost in charming others. The other half is lost in going through anxieties caused by others. Leave this play, you have played enough.

--- ascribed to Rumi, e.g. http://sayingimages.com/rumi-quotes-poem-love-life/

a book must be an ice-axe to break the seas frozen inside our soul

--- Franz Kafka, quoted by Irina Bukova on the occasion of World Book and Copyright Day, 23 April 2016 (pdf)

According to Cori Schumacher: "From a letter to Oskar Pollak dated January 27, 1904. It was written in Russian and there are various translations for it."

This is also stated on https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Franz_Kafka, where a variety of variant translations are given:

• I think we ought to read only the kind of books that wound and stab us. If the book we are reading doesn't wake us up with a blow on the head, what are we reading it for? ...we need the books that affect us like a disaster, that grieve us deeply, like the death of someone we loved more than ourselves, like being banished into forests far from everyone, like a suicide. A book must be the axe for the frozen sea inside us.

• If the book we are reading does not wake us, as with a fist hammering on our skulls, then why do we read it? Good God, we also would be happy if we had no books and such books that make us happy we could, if need be, write ourselves. What we must have are those books that come on us like ill fortune, like the death of one we love better than ourselves, like suicide. A book must be an ice axe to break the sea frozen inside us.

• What we need are books that hit us like a most painful misfortune, like the death of someone we loved more than we love ourselves, that make us feel as though we had been banished to the woods, far from any human presence, like a suicide. A book must be the ax for the frozen sea within us.

• A book should be an ice-axe to break the frozen sea within us.

• A book must be an ice-axe to break the seas frozen inside our soul.

• A book should serve as the ax for the frozen sea within us.